Back Stabbing

in layman terms, it usually defines as telling tales, complaining, gossiping a person, usually not letting that person know. not all the time, in front of a higher position (usually are) meanwhile, making this person lost reputation, confidence and lower the moral of which others is working with him. Back Stabbing usually was very much based on a personal view point, very much biased and many time untruth.

Back Stabbing does not have an agenda, but it often came from female. ( joke: If an animal that bleeds once a month, you have be to careful, but once it stop bleeding, you have be aware) most of the time, i encountered personally, it was your so-call close friends, or want to be.

It usually happens in MNC, Big SME or sometime even small head counts companies, group or committee. Often, the "Back Stabbed" person does not know until the last minutes and still treat the "Back Stabbing" one like a good buddy.

reason for this action:
a personal pride, to over take certain position, revenge, gain reputation, for fun, security of its own jobs, etc etc...

Some Suggestion;

1) You cannot please everybody, it's either you go their way and be appreciated or you go the other way and be hated. Just bear in mind that which ever way you go what matters most is that you don't step on anybody's way, just stick with the true side of life.

2)Learn how to play game and watch your back at the same time. People now do not behave nicely. They betray each others and You had a lesson in life and move on to a new group of friend who is sincere and a true friend.

3) stay away from them, try not working with them so often. give clear instruction and learn to take care of your back.

Swim
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After 1 week of aviva, finally got myself to the pool tonight. just warming up the body and refresh the stroke. 3 sets of 500m, 2-3mins rest in between.

Mix strokes in the swims, first 500m, cannot remember the strokes, stuggling, rested 3 mins, continue another 500m, almost remember, rested another 3mins and finally can stroke better, but tired liao. complete time: 45mins.